Have you ever lain awake at 3 am wondering if anyone would ever hire you? Do you wonder if you missed out when they were passing out charisma and self-confidence (and worry that you got extra doses of stage fright and imposter syndrome instead!)?
Do you fear that teaching opportunities and invites to be on television and podcasts are going to educators who're more confident and skilled in public speaking?
You're not alone! Nearly all sex educators share or have shared your worries (myself included!), and Sex Geek Conservatory is here to help you turn the volume down on your insecurities while cranking up your abilities to rock everything from podcast interviews to large speaking engagements!
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Powerful speaking skills and an engaging stage presence not only makes you more marketable, it makes teaching more FUN! Increase your professionalism, prowess, and potential to earn money as a sex-positive educator by investing in yourself, your skills, and your career...
Become a more engaging, charismatic, trustworthy presenter and public speaker! Feel more self-confident teaching in front of small and large groups… On camera or Skype… Giving 1-on-1 interviews and leading coaching sessions…
Make new friends and business connections. Earn the respect of your peers by learning how to weave advanced teaching techniques with powerful performance skills!
Let me help you learn these skills, Or Your Money Back…
Countdown 'till we make public speaking fear YOU... (Unless the training sells out sooner!)
You Don't Have To Hesitate or Feel Paralyzed with Fear or Imposters Syndrome. Not Anymore.
Would you like to hone your teaching & facilitation skills? Would you like to teach in-person or online workshops, be invited to speak at retreats and conferences, have online coaching clients telling their friends to hire you... And have all that feel EASY?
Imagine Being an Engaging, In-Demand, Online Facilitator
Who Runs DYNAMIC Online Workshops with EASE...
Would That Help YOU Pay the Bills This Winter?
Imagine Other Educators Recommending Your Classes
To Their Clients On Social Media,
Telling Everyone YOU Give "GREAT Zoom!"
Would That Feed Your Heart & Keep You Going During These Uncertain Times?
MANY educators are holding themselves back from teaching online because they haven't figured out how to juggle all of the numerous moving pieces! And some educators courageously tried teaching online but fumbled their first attempts, possibly losing clients and followers in the process...
Teaching engaging online classes where YOU feel comfortable and your masterful teaching INSPIRES your attendees to return to your classes and programs over and over... It's easier when you have help and support from those of us who've overcome the technological glitches and honed our skills. It's easier and MORE FUN when you have like-minded, fellow sex-positive educators cheering you on!
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Being a mesmerizing and engaging teacher who has great advice is one of the easiest ways to build a “word of mouth” reputation where people naturally want to share, post, Like, and tell others about your work. It’s the sex educators and speakers who have “word of mouth” reputations turbo charging their careers that get invited to speak, get hired, and are in demand.
Despite what you may think, nearly all of these speakers weren’t born with charisma, charm, and inspiring swagger they exhibit on stage… They had to tap into it, hone and craft it, and exercise their “speaking muscles” until it became second nature…
While I was always this “dorky,” I wasn’t always this confident and self-possessed on stage. In fact, I was the fat, awkward 7th grader who wore the rainbow, Mork And Mindy suspenders and thought “Do you want to play Connect Four?” was an adequate pickup line. And today, I have the great honor of having had over 50,000 men and women attend my workshops and lectures. I get invited to speak on college campuses, teach at international retreats, share my wisdom at professional conferences. My YouTube channel has nearly 2million views and , and I’ve appeared on television shows, radio, and podcasts in nearly every continent on the planet.
I went from clumsy 7th grader to “America’s favorite sex geek,” and I believe you can create your own version of this journey for your career. In fact, I’m so certain of it, I’m willing to guarantee it.
Being an engaging speaker is simpler than you think. In fact, it’s shockingly within your grasp… Yes, it will take work and won’t happen overnight, but YOU can tap into powers of presentation and teaching that you may not think you possess! And YOU can learn to do it in a way that is authentic and true to who YOU are so you can bring it forth easily over and over again. I can’t wait!
In this 3-day intensive, I’ll be teaching you the 5 Secrets To Being In Demand, how to discover and unleash your personal voice and authentic expression so that, whenever you teach, you leave an impression that touches, connects, and moves your audiences and helps them anchor your teachings and transform their lives.
As far as I know, nothing like this exists in the sex educator community.
I’m not going to teach you a bunch of public speaking mannerisms and cookie-cutter vocal technique approaches. Those just leave people yawning, bored, and looking at their iPhones. This also isn’t an NLP course or “train the trainer” program where you’ll learn a bunch of tactics and strategies that ultimately leave your participants feelings manipulated, distrusting of you, and ruin your reputation.
I’m talking about tapping into your authentic self-expression as a teacher, plugging it into your passionate purpose, and combining it with your expertise so you can harness all of who you are when you speak.
This approach will allow you to overcome “stage fright” and the fear of public speaking while simultaneously building trust and connection with your audiences.
This 3-day intensive isn’t for slackers. Only apply if you’re serious about empowering others and making the world a more pleasure-positive place.
We’ll be digging deep within your being and who YOU are as a teacher and a human being to find the gold that leaps out of you and touches people’s hearts. And then I’ll show you how to deliver that gold in a self-expressed and congruent way that will naturally give you confidence, charisma, and have your audiences inspired to take action.
You’ll learn, anchor, and integrate teaching and performance skills that will catapult your speaking skills and stage presence to the next level!
AND I’ll be inviting you to some “pre-work” webinars and short videos before Conservatory even happens to prime the pump and get things percolating, so when you come to Conservatory, the information and our time together will unfold powerfully!
Envision yourself on stage, people leaping to their feet, cheering you on as your words and mannerisms convey your message and deliver the impact and the difference your followers have been craving for all their lives!
You can be THAT kind of educator.
Imagine the respect your family, peers, and loved ones will have for you when they witness and interact with you from your place of authentic expression that fuels your calling and career…
How would THAT feel, waking up every day with that kind of ease, alignment, and presence?
I’ve helped people go from wall-flowers who could barely say hi to getting multiple standing ovations in front of 700 people. Imagine what I can help YOU do with your passion and your voice!
Wherever you are, whether you want to stop dreading talking in front of a group or raise an auditorium of people to their feet, cheering, I’m going to tune you in and turn you on!
Access the latest recordings from Sex Geek Conservatory so you can start upping your game today, AND secure your seat to the next scheduled Conservatory (limited to the first 20 people). Start today and discover the skills and ability to unleash yourself in a way that opens hearts, inspires growth, builds a bankable reputation, and brings the crowds to their feet.
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“As someone that was newly budding into a new career and getting over the ever-present impostor syndrome, Sex Geek Conservatory came at the right time in my life. I was able to walk away with skills and confidence that I do not know I would have gotten if I had done it another way. The pushing and support (in a loving way) was what I needed. As someone whom people assume is an extrovert who is TOTALLY NOT! This was a great way for me to practice how to give talks, how to create pitches, and how to just talk in front of strangers without wanting to run away.
Since doing Conservatory I have created my own podcast series, I have spoken at numerous colleges, I have keynoted conferences and spoken at some of the best of them. Overall Conservatory was uber helpful in getting my skill set together to be able to do all the things.”
~Jimanekia Eborn
Consultant, Host of Trauma Queen podcast and
Director of Education for More than “No”
“I’ve always been super shy. Insomnia for nights before a presentation in front of 5 people, and my hand shaking so badly the laser pointer made people nauseous level of scared. I tried Xanax, positive self-talk, and therapy. Nothing helped the raw panic and anxiety I experienced when I spoke publicly. The study that said people would rather face divorce or death than public speaking could have been about me!
Working with Reid helped me get in touch with being in service when I shared, and the message meaning more to me than my fear. He also guided me into connecting my body and energy to my voice so my words had more impact and power.
Being part of Sex Geek Conservatory, and seeing that other people struggled too, and learning skills to improve the way we reached people made a huge difference for me. I’ve had standing ovations in front of 700 people, and at 4 Bawdy Storytelling Shows. I know my words are able to reach people more deeply and hopefully inspire them at a more profound level, whether I’m sharing ideas at Sex Geek Summer Camp or at a workshop. Conservatory is amazing. The people, the skills, and Reid’s unique approach to finding each individual’s power center made a tremendous difference that will last the rest of my life.”
~ Cathy from TheIntimacyDojo.com
“Sex Geek Conservatory helped me identify the areas of public speaking where I needed some attention and improvement. It also gave me several opportunities to workshop those skills and get better. I noticed a significant increase in positive feedback from my public speaking & teaching gigs after participating in Conservatory. Now I get regular comments of people saying that my teaching & speaking style is engaging, effective and leaves them feeling comfortable participating in my workshops & events.”
~Hunter Riley, Director of Education & Outreach
Self Serve Sexuality Resource Center
Albuquerque, NM
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Why? Because I Care Twice As Much.
Guarantee #1: My Standard, 30-Day Money Back Guarantee – So long as it’s within 30 days of you registering for Conservatory, take action right now and Register with absolutely no risk! How’s that possible? Because you’ve automatically got an entire month to ask for your money back and get it refunded, no questions asked. If you’re registering for Conservatory “last minute,” meaning inside of 30-days ’til the event, then I still got’cha covered!*
*See my “Reid Won’t Waste My Time” Guarantee below…
Guarantee #2: My Special, “Reid Won’t Waste My Time” Satisfaction Guarantee – I know your time and focus are extremely valuable! I promise not to waste your time and am prepared to back it up! How? If you attend and participate in all 3 days of Sex Geek Conservatory’s lectures and activities and you feel that you’ve learned absolutely nothing and that I’ve completely wasted your time, let me or my staff know with integrity, “Reid, you wasted my time and I didn’t learn anything. I’d like a refund,” and we’ll refund your tuition price IN FULL!
This is how much I believe in Sex Geek Conservatory, and how much I believe in YOU!
The skills, understandings, connections and experience you’ll gain in these 3 days will last a lifetime, positively affect your career as a sex educator, and flow into how you look and think about teaching & the business behind the business of sex education.
What is the value of such a transformation? Priceless. You bring your courage, your passion, and your drive to make a difference, and I’ll help you unleash your power! I guarantee it or your money back.
The Reid Won’t Waste My Time Satisfaction Guarantee does not include your travel costs, your accommodations, and food. You will be required to return all Conservatory course materials, your notes, and all S.W.A.G.
What happens if I’m not one of the first 20 people, Reid, and Conservatory is sold out? Great question! Once our upcoming IN-PERSON Conservatory fills up, new purchasers will be put on a waitlist and notified. You can let us know if you want to remain on the waitlist in case there’s a cancelation, or you can ask for a refund. If you wish to remain on the waitlist, your refund period will be extended until the event in hopes you can join us. If you can’t join us, you will have the choice to be refunded or roll your ticket over to the next Conservatory (so you don’t get shut out again!). Either way, you have choice.
So what are you waiting for? Are you ready to join us! Let’s do this…
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Let's face it, there are always reasons to wait...
Life is busy. The car needed new brakes. There's a wedding you're a part of. You had to make an emergency dentist visit and got socked with a huge bill. Maybe you'll figure this out on your own.
And maybe you won't, because that's how it was for me.
I spent 10 years refining this process, but that doesn't take into account all the time before that... The time I spent waiting for everything to "line up," for the "perfect time" to announce itself.
It didn't "line up" for me, and the timing was never "perfect."
Things eventually got painful enough and frustrating enough in my life that waiting was harder (and scarier) than moving forward. I started investing in taking classes, reading books, seeking out my more successful friends for advice... Breaking that initial inertia made all the difference because it gave me momentum. And the great thing about momentum is that it can snowball... Class + book + workshop + conversation x the next 10 years of my life...
That cliché about the longest journey beginning with a single step? It's not a cliché.
There's SO MUCH wisdom (and power) in that first step.
And the 2nd step ONLY happens after... You guessed it... The first step.
As I devoured information, my geeky brain got turned on and I had deeper, more interesting conversations... I was able to get "Meta" with the program leaders and ask better questions of my successful friends, which allowed me to learn deeper lessons and see a bigger picture for myself.
I started rapidly applying what I was learning and slowly began making money, money I re-invested into MORE learning.
I spent over $48,000 learning from people who make millions from their programs, events and workshops. If you add in the plane tickets, hotels, food, it's well over $75,000. Then there's the 1000+plus hours testing what worked and what didn't on my own career and business.
What I'm certain of... If I knew all of this information in 2004, if I had taken my first learning step before Cuddle Party launched, my career would have been a lot more fulfilling, I would have helped a lot more people, and I would have made a massively bigger difference up 'till now. I would have been able to quit my side jobs sooner, worried less, and devote more of my time and efforts to making the difference that matters to me.
I don't want you to wait like I did. The world needs you NOW.
You deserve to know how to do what I learned efficiently and powerfully. To know that you've crafted your message into a learnable set of actionable tools that inspire your audiences and ripple outward, spreading the heart of what you want to teach to touch more lives... To transform families, communities, and generations.
Your attendees deserve to have the most powerful workshop you can deliver. In some cases, their lives may literally depend on it. For others, just their hearts and a lifetime of increased pleasure and intimacy.
How would that feel as your legacy?
While I never guarentee income (legally, I can't!) I know that I've recoupped the tuition of this course in a single run of one of my events. And if I didn't believe I could add the kind of value and make the kind of difference that you'll be grateful for, I wouldn't be offering this course. Especially with the Double-Tap Guarantee.
Working with me one-on-one for a 3 day weekend starts at $5000. And that's if I have 3 days in a row available to be booked!
If you think you can hire me for 3-4 hours to drink from the "firehose" and get the Vulcan Mind-Meld download, my hourly rate for coaching and mentoring starts at $400 per hour. But from what I've learned about optimal learning environments, I wouldn't advise you cough up $1600 to try and guzzle the knowledge in one shot.
You definitely could, but why?
It took me 10 years to create Design Studio. And I believe I can shorten your learning curve towards success so much faster and with so much more clarity, ease, self-confidence, and fun!
Imagine trying to put a dollar amount on the effort you put into creating even a small workshop...
You rent a space for perhaps $100. If you're lucky, you don't have to rent chairs... You write the promotional copy and the email, and use social media to tell everyone about it... You craft the curriculum and wrestle with the making the worksheets and handouts... As the dates quickly approach, you notice you have a handfull of Facebook RSVPs, but few actual ticket sales... You check the Eventbrite links to make sure they're working... You put your heart out there again, investing time phoning, texting, and Personal Messaging friends trying to sell more tickets... You worry if another Facebook post would be annoying or appear needy... By now, you've spent hours worrying, "Will this all work out?"
What's the "peace of mind" cost of a few years worth of worrying while having to work several jobs just to make ends meet? I did that. It wasn't fun. And I don't see why you should have to do that, too.
There's a reason Sex Geek Design Studio is designed the way it is, with all the extra perks and benefits woven in:
I don't want your heartfelt effort and money to be wasted. And I don't want your attendees to get less than your best. 'Cause when they get your best, and your career is running powerfully... That's when I know we're going to leave the world better than we found it.
And that's my jam.
Spend 3 days with me learning to create and design on a more intentional, conscious level and knock your attendees socks off!
And do it all for just $997.
A lifetime of workshop design confidence and empowerment, guarenteed completely (see below), just 1-click away.
Over 3 days, I’ll guide you to discovering that inner power and expression and help you bring it out where it can make a difference.
If you’re ready, join me now!
xxREiD
*As with many of my live events where I have to rent space, order supplies, etc., I don’t give refunds within 30 days of an event. I will roll over your ticket for medical emergencies within that time. And you can transfer your ticket to another eligible participant (21 years old or older as of first day of the event).
When Is Sex Geek Design Studio: TBA
Where Is Sex Geek Design Studio: TBA
I Want To Come To The LIVE 3-Day Event. How Do I Know If I'm One of The First 30 To Register? If you're reading this sentence right now, it means we've still got registrations left, but they may not last long. Once we max-out at 30ppl and are sold out, I'll take this page down. Register soon, because I'm not sure when, if ever, I'll run Design Studio again. Hope you'll join us!
Can I Come To Sex Geek Design Studio If I'm Not Really a Sex Educator? If you consider yourself someone who works under the "umbrella" of helping people get better at intimacy, relationships and self-love... If you help folks feel less ashamed about themselves, their bodies, their desires... If you call yourself or are working towards becoming a relationship coach, a therapist, counselor, sex blogger or author, an intimacy expert, a divorce lawyer who wants to help people have healthier transitions, a sexologist, a religious leader interested in creating a more sex-positive congregation, a doula or midwife, a sex worker, a communication nerd, social worker, sex-positive podcaster, Kink or Tantra teacher... Then Sex Geek Design Studio is for YOU! Come join us!
What Airport Should I Fly Into? TBA
What Should I Bring? Your computer, a cord to charge it, pen and paper if you're a note taker, a sweater if you get cold, and whatever drink and snacks you'd like to have on hand.
What Should I Wear? Comfortable clothes, we’ll be doing a lot of work, and we want you to be comfortable. And bring a sweater if you get cold easily!
Is Food and Lodging Included? No, you’re responsible for your own travel, food, and lodging. Feel free to bring snacks for during the event. You’ll be given time for meal breaks, and in this day and age, your smartphone probably has a better list of nearby restaurants for lunch and dinner than the bellhop does!
Where Should I Stay? TBA
Where Do I Eat? There's are several food options on site at The Westin. And also nearby options.
What Will You Cover? I’ll be teaching you proven methods of creating and organizing content into a teachable format. And also ways to authentically find your core passion and share it dynamically and in self-expressed ways via your content. You won’t be a cookie cutter version of me or anyone else.
What Are The Hours of the Event? 9am-5pm (doors open at 8:45am), each day
Service Animals: I try to be as inclusive as possible. Depending on the policies of the hotel, and the needs of attendees, there may be service animals at my events. If there are allergies that can’t be dealt with by taking allergy medicine, or other issues or concerns, please contact me at [email protected].
What’s The Guarantee? There are two guarantees for this. My standard 30-day money back guarantee (valid up until 30 days before Design Studio. No refunds within 30 days of the start of the event). AND my special satisfaction guarantee: if you attend and participate in all three days and don’t feel that you’ve learned anything, let me or my staff know, and we’ll refund your ticket price.
What If I Find Out I Can’t Attend? Tickets are transferable up to the day of the event. There are no refunds after the 30-day guarantee window, or within 30 days of the event. In cases of documented medical emergencies, contact [email protected].
But, Reid, I Suffer From Writer's Block and Can’t Ever Seem To Make Progress When It Comes To Designing Workshops. Is Sex Geek Design Studio Really For Me? I believe it is! First, we’ll overcome your workshop writers-block by pairing your authentic teaching-style, your content creation-style, and your "Teacher's Purpose" in a way that accesses your creativity and unleashes the genius you already have within you. Plus, we’ll be doing all this together as a group and I’ll be holding your hand the whole weekend. And, I’ll make it goofy and fun, too!
Will Sex Geek Design Studio Help Me With My Career? What I’m going to show you will help you imagine how what your creating fits as a piece of a larger, more complete curriculum of programs and offerings. Once you get the hang of seeing how everything fits together in a way that’s congruent for you, you’ll be able to see your career from a new, more empowering perspective, one that doesn’t have to “lock you in” either. Once you can uncork your creativity, align it with your self-expression as a teacher, and envision an entire curriculum, it’s easier to see how you would manifest a career (and how YOU could get paid to teach).
Will I Be Sitting Down The Whole Weekend? Nope! While there will be plenty of writing time, which you’ll probably want to sit for, we will also be up and interactive. Some people think and brainstorm better when they’re moving and interacting with more than just their keyboard. Plus, we’ll practice teaching bits of what we create to one another! Don’t fret. We’ll do baby steps the whole weekend so even the shyest among us can gradually anchor their confidence with their congruent expression in ways that will leave you and me, and everyone, feeling empowered and amazing!
Are You Promising I Can Make a Living By Running My Workshops and Selling My Products? No. Just like anything, you’ll have to do the work to succeed. I can’t promise any particular financial return. I can promise that I’ll show you and help you integrate techniques that if you use them will boost your ability to educate and engage your audience far more effectively and naturally to who you are.
What If I’m Terrified Of Creating a Program? Its ok. I can help. A lot of people are… And some people don’t think they are, but procrastinate and never quite get their programs done.
What If I’ve Already Got Some Workshops and Products? Great! Congratulations! Are you ready to dig deep and get more powerful and easy to follow? I promise I can challenge you as far as you want to go. Are you ready to touch people so deeply they change their lives and tell their friends? I can take you there.
Isn’t That a Lot To Promise? Yes. And I’m committed to going as deep as you’re ready to. We’re going to walk towards the gun, together, and start sharing the things you’ve never thought you could. All in a supportive and compassionate environment. Its a lot of work and a lot of courage, and infinitely worth the effort.
Can’t wait to geek out with you!
xxREiD